Women Make Men Last Longer in Bed

What Can Women Do to Make Men Last Longer in Bed?

By Daniel K.

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Women’s Help to Make Men Last Longer in Bed

There have been many topics discussed over the internet about how to last longer in bed for men. Based on my observation most of the recommendations are focusing on what men can do on their side to last longer in bed. Very rare are talking about what women can do to help their men in overcoming their premature ejaculation.
In fact, women’s role can be very helpful in beating men’s premature ejaculation in order to last longer in bed.
It is a matter or principle that any problem related to a sexual relationship either it is resulted from erectile dysfunction in men or frigidity in women, etc, has to be the joint responsibility of both in couple, especially in marriage couple. Each side has to work together.
However, during my observation in my private sex counseling group, men often were reluctant to ask from their partner for help as this was regarded as admission of their weakness in sexual performance that would harm their self pride. I do not know what about this in the rest of the world. Perhaps you could share your opinion in the comment section.

Therefore, I would say this article is more appropriately to be addressed to women.
Yet, it isn’t bad idea for men to know first, and in turn they let their partner know about it.
In quite a number of cases where men is facing difficulty to last longer in bed, unfortunately, women even makes things worse rather than being helpful.
Some women criticized their men for the failure to satisfy them. What happened after this was that it even ruined their men’s self confidence in their sexual ability to last long.

Man is not a machine. He has feeling, emotion and mentality which can be exhausted and eventually broken down under very unpleasant circumstances such as severe early ejaculation.

When he falls into this situation, what he would need more from his woman is her good understanding. A good understanding and support from women will make men easier to beat his premature ejaculation problem.

Here are some sample of tips for women to help to make men last longer.

  1. Do not criticize or laugh at her man for the unexpected instant cumming.
  2. Give support to her man by saying positive words such as “It’s alright I believe next time you’d be better”, “I appreciate your effort”, ”Do not give up, try again I believe you can”, etc.
  3. With passion, encourage the man to try undergoing some training for ejaculation control to last longer in bed, including instant means of delaying ejaculation such as wearing a condom and delay cream.
  4. Discuss freely and gently with her man about his feeling. From this discussion woman can get idea more precisely how bad his man’s condition is and thus she can adjust her expectation thereon.
  5. For short term, woman should welcome other means of having orgasm such as oral sex or by fingering done by her man.
  6. Remove all negative thought about early ejaculation being a sign of egoism of man.
  7. Never pretend to have climaxed, because if noticed, it can upset the man and make things worse.
  8. Be creative instead of monotonous in finding a new way of having quicker orgasm for the woman.
  9. Other creative and constructive tips that women might have to make men last longer in bed.

Hope this information could inspire you for having a better idea and motivation.
Wishing you success and happy sexual life.

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Delay Cream Side Effects

Delay Cream Side Effects Report – How to Minimize?

By Daniel Kraska

Does Delay Cream have side effects?

Delay Cream Side Effects

Delay Cream Side Effects

This is one of the most frequently asked questions among males who are planning to use any male desensitizer.
I have summed up the common delay cream side effects reported from various sources over internet, and here they are:

1) The most common issue of using delay creams or sprays is the reduction of pleasure. Among many products on the market, some may reduce the urge to ejaculate effectively, yet reduce the sexual enjoyment at the same time.
Most men accept this as a compromise for delaying ejaculation to satisfy their partner.
The majority of desensitizing creams cause these side effects by using lidocaine or prilocaine as their basic ingredients which work to dull the sensation of the penis resulting in delaying ejaculation.

2) Delay creams that use Benzocaine as the single core ingredient might bring side effects like: itching, redness, swelling, pain, and rashes.
The most severe side effects reported (but these are very rare) are tremors, swelling of the face, seizures (convulsions), restlessness, nervousness, anxiety, increased sweating,
headaches, fast or slow heartbeat, dizziness or drowsiness, difficulty breathing.

Findings on Delay Cream Side Effects reported in Daniel’s Counseling Group.

We have a number of male patients in our group who are using penis desensitizer for delaying their ejaculation during intercourse.
They all used the same desensitizer product made by the same manufacturer which was herbal-based.
We took 10 respondents in early 2012 to figure out the side effects.
Here are the reports:

  • Seven of ten reported that the product worked well to delay ejaculation without side effects at all. Males in this group are found to have sex once a week on average.
  • Two of ten reported a slight reduction in sexual pleasure, but they could still enjoy sex very much with their partner with prolonged time. Males in this group of respondents had sex twice on average per week.
  • One of ten suffered from slight itching of the penis, yet he could still enjoy prolonged sex. This man was found, extraordinarily, to have sex once to twice a day! I guessed this man was someone with a hyper-sex drive. It is no wonder his penis skin had become so tender; he possibly had some small invisible wounds because of too much sex and delay cream applied.
  • On top of that, there’s no report that delay cream affected the partner.

Conclusion to Keep Delay Cream Side Effects to a Minimum.

  1. The side effects could sill occur, but it depends on the individual’s condition and sexual habits. Too much sex will make the penis skin more vulnerable to irritation and itch.
  2. Delay creams have to be used in accordance with the dose recommended per apply.
    Yet, it is also not recommended to be used in excessive number of applications (such as 3-5 times a day) to reduce the chance of side effects.
  3. The best delay cream must be made from herbal-based formula.
    We found the product used and tested with our patients appeared to be the safest one and also proved effective in delaying ejaculation and even enhanced sexual performance. Get our full review on this delay cream product here, before you decide to buy it.

Strategic Use of Delay Cream

In order to eliminate the possible side effects and to make cost-effective premature ejaculation treatment, use Delay Cream strategically as follows:

1) Use delay cream as a quick starter to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed when you need a quick fix, then continue with training to develop your inner ability to last longer.

This is also very suitable for those to have lost confidence due to long lasting premature ejaculation problems. A quick fix and results will help the sufferers regain the self confidence and thus it’s going to be easier to undergo the self training for lasting longer in bed.

2) Try first the other tricks to last longer in bed such as the two common techniques: breathing control and flexing the PC muscle, or stop and start technique.
When after using these techniques you notice you can last longer but still ejaculate a little earlier than your partner to orgasm, then delay cream may be just needed to bridge the gap with fewer dose as needed. Of course, you might want to try the next session or the other day.

3) If you believe you have very sensitive organ that makes you ejaculate too soon, delay cream is the appropriate use. However, it remains a good idea that you start with training to control your ejaculation. When you have made progress in controlling your ejaculation after training, the use of delay cream can be reduced in the amount applied when still needed or can be fully stopped.

The core program used in our sex counseling group is training and developing men’s ability to last longer in bed naturally and permanently and we found one program that is proven to show a good result. Check out what it is all about HERE.

I hope this information is useful to you.

Have a great day and I wish you sexual happiness.

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