By Daniel Kraska
Having the right mindset for natural premature ejaculation cures is a must if you want to be successful and satisfied with your recovery from your premature ejaculation problem.
Most of men failed to achieve significant improvement in their premature ejaculation cures because they do not have the right mindset. The worst consequence is that it could affect very badly their relationship with their spouse. And this is the biggest concern I have which encourages me to help guys in coping with their premature ejaculation in order to be able to last longer in bed and thus to satisfy their partner.
Mindset is the attitude you have and the way you are looking into the problem and your expectation.
Here are some basic elements of mindset that you should have for satisfactory natural premature ejaculation cures:
Mindset #1 – Understand and accept the fundamental that premature ejaculation is NOT a disease.
Thinking it is a disease will put you in the hopeless state and in the expectation for a miracle coming medical treatment that is never be there for you. You always treat yourself as a sick man.
Medical treatment such as taking pills is fine to overcome premature ejaculation (not to cure), it gives you instant results but its efficacies won’t last long. You will need to take the pills again every time you are having sex, just like you are doping yourself before entering into a sport match.
Premature ejaculation is another translation of inability to last long in bed as you want to. The ability to last long in bed is something that you can develop through certain training and exercises, just like developing the ability to last long in walking or in sports.
And the fact is that many men are able to develop their ability to last longer in bed and thus they do not have premature ejaculation issue any more. So, you CAN too.
Mindset #2 – Premature ejaculation (PE) is subjective definition & perception.
You should put the premature ejaculation in the context of having sex with only your spouse or partner. So, you call it premature ejaculation because you ejaculate before your spouse climaxes every time you have sex. She is never satisfied because you always ejaculate too soon and become flaccid before she gets her orgasm. If you can last long enough and thus can make her climax, then the issue of premature ejaculation is gone, no matter how long you last. Suppose you have sex with another woman, you might not have PE issue, because she can reach orgasm quicker before you ejaculate. This is why premature ejaculation is relative and subjective.
Mindset #3 – Be realistic in setting a target for sexual improvement.
Referring to point 2 above, the prime objective of premature ejaculation cures is to satisfy your spouse in order to keep up a healthy sexual relationship. Therefore, never try to quantify the duration of sex with the number of time or thrusts you want to achieve, as long as she is satisfied and harmonious relationship can be maintained. However, it is all very well if you wish lasting longer and longer in order to get your spouse multiple orgasms if possible. But you will have a limit and every man has their own different limit too that can not be surpassed. Again, never compare with other men’s limit. Other men may have more ability or less ability than you despite having been trained and developed.
Mindset #4 – Premature ejaculation problem and cures is the responsibility of both you and your spouse.
As the prime objective of premature ejaculation cures is to satisfy your spouse and to maintain a harmonious relationship, then the problem and the treatment should be seen as the responsibility of both of you and your spouse. In this case, it is essential that your spouse appreciate your problem and is willing to help her man to last longer in bed. Further more, for quicker overcoming your problem of PE, you will have to do something to make your spouse quicker in getting aroused and hence quicker in getting orgasm.
In coping with your PE, there should be something to do with your spouse or partner besides yourself. Even it is possible that by doing this, she become able to climax much quicker before you ejaculate and even before you undergo any treatment for your PE. Then you should think you do not have premature ejaculation any longer.
Mindset #5 – Need to have self confidence that you can develop your sex ability.
Your mind is very powerful in controlling your reality. In most cases, your reality is the consequence of what goes on in your head. Your thoughts influence your life in every aspect – your career, your perspective on life, your experiences, and the objective you are trying to achieve.
Fundamentally, what you think usually entails being what you get – whether it’s good or bad. So you should not always have any fear and doubt when undergoing premature ejaculation cures as well as when having sex, but do have a confident mindset and mentality.
Mindset #6 – Need to have great passion in undergoing the training and exercises for your Premature Ejaculation Cures.
Top performance can not be reached in one night just like in sports.
You need to have great passion in undergoing training and exercises to build up your inner ability for permanent cures of your premature ejaculation.
There is no instant result, because re-conditioning your body, mind and mentality will take time. But, you will see your ability is improving just after one week of training and exercises. This will keep you motivated and excited to go on.
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