What Can Women Do To Make A Man Last Longer In Bed?
By Daniel Kraska
How to make a man last longer in bed question should not be addressed and isolated only for men to respond, to help themselves and to resolve, but also for their women or girls in helping their men in overcoming their problem.
Why? Because sexual pleasure is to be intended for both parties in love making which plays important role in maintaining healthy relationship between husband and wife, between women and their partners.
The question of how to make a man last longer in bed arises because the man cannot last long enough the give the time for his partner to reach her climax or orgasm.
In other words, because the man ejaculates in the middle of intercourse before his partner reaches her orgasm.
So, the issue now is how to make a man last long enough in bed so as to allow his partner to get orgasm before or just at time he himself ejaculates.
Woman or girl can actually play some roles in bridging over this time gap between his man’s ejaculation and her orgasm. Woman should even need to know all the methods and skills on how to make a man last longer in bed.
Unfortunately, in many instances women often make things worse rather than solving the problem of early ejaculation experienced by their men.
When woman is not sexually satisfied due to his man’s premature ejaculation she then gets upset and even criticizes his man’s sexual performance. This action will actually ruin further his man’s self confidence in his sexual ability.
Man is not a robot, he has feeling and emotion and he can physically and mentally be exhausted. He can easily have a breakdown under very unpleasant circumstances such as premature ejaculation that he faces.
During this circumstance what he would need more from his woman is her good understanding. With good understanding and support from his woman, it is going to be easier to treat his premature ejaculation problem.
So woman, what can you do for help to make your man last longer?
Here are some simple tips on what woman can do to make a man last longer in bed:
- Never criticize or taunt her partner about his failure to last long enough to make her cum.
- Give her man support by saying positive words like “it’s fine, you will be better next time I believe…”, “you are doing better now, I am happy…etc”, “do not worry, I appreciate your efforts…etc”
- Express the passion and cooperation when her guy is doing some kind of training or exercise on how to make him last longer in bed.
- Can discuss freely about her man’s PE problem.
This is perhaps the most important part of the tips, because through discussion, she might be able to adjust her expectation and feel encouraged to cooperate with her man in the efforts of how to make him last longer in bed which will end up with ultimate satisfaction for each other.
- For the time being, woman should welcome another way to get her orgasm for instance by mean of oral or hand stimulation while coital orgasm is not possible. Or use these techniques as a foreplay and when her orgasm is about to come, switch the play to normal intercourse for having orgasm.
- If intercourse is chosen, woman should be able to control her pelvic movements even during her arousal in such that it is not too wild and too exciting that makes his man ejaculate much sooner.
- Woman should accept the use of condom by his man. Wearing condom is the most common method of how to make a man last longer in bed.
- Should not pretend to have orgasm, because this can make him up set if noticed.
- Deeply understand that her man’s premature ejaculation isn’t at all a sign of egoism of him.
- Never get fixated on expectation of mutual and simultaneous orgasms.
- Never give up supporting her man and in trying each of the tips of how to make him last longer in bed and in undergoing some training or exercises to improve his sexual performance.
- Never give up finding out and learning about some other creative methods on how to make a man last longer in bed.
Advice for men: If you feel ashamed to tell your premature ejaculation to your partner, or if your partner won’t understand and accept your problem, then do NOT give up.
There is a revolutionary solution to your problem. This is a self-help ejaculation training that you can do in private that easy to understand and practice, This method has been used in my small private sex counseling group and the majority of men were satisfied with the progress that they could last longer after some time and did big surprise to their partner. Visit this Ejaculation Training Manual website.